Am I too nice?

8 signs one is "too nice": 1. You will drop what you are doing to help another person, even if it means sacrificing something important to you. 2. Being "nice is part of your identity, and you fear you must constantly be this way or you will be labelled as "fake".

3. You feel overly responsible for others feelings, and will go to any length to not cause pain even if its means not standing up for yourself.

4. You often "forgive" easily and allow people to remain in your life with repeat harmful patterns.

5. When you think someone is upset with you, you begin to people please, compliment, and try harder for their approval.

6. You have a history of being "nice" to avoid harm, and this has become a survival skill.

7. You tell people "it's okay" and comfort them after they hurt you, even though it really isn't.

8. You fear being labelled as "selfish", "toxic" or "not empathetic" for not having reactions that are "not nice".

I suffer from this because I do every single thing on this list. After listing out, I'm pretty sure no one feels any sort of pride in themselves. It's just a reality check that you've already been too nice to them, and at the end what did you get in return? Nothing, am i right? Reminder to everyone - do what pleases you, do what makes you happy, please.